As I mentioned in my last post, we have had a good bit of upheaval in our homeschooling schedule thus far, and despite my best efforts, this week was no exception. Dentist appointments, lack of sleep, unexpected errands, and grumpy attitudes all came together to make for a disjointed and incomplete school week. We plowed through as best we were able, but, as I told my husband, "we cried over grammar, sighed over math, grumbled through Bible, and yelled through (and in) German."
Being a planner, my first response to a week like this is to go back and investigate the plan. What didn't work? What should I change?
In all my research prior to starting homeschool, I found lots of wonderful advice to troubleshoot those exact questions, and I feel blessed to begin our homeschooling journey on the hard-won knowledge of those who have gone before. Short lessons? Check. Incorporating interests and passions? Check. Variety? Check. Ditch the busywork in favor of meaningful narration and notebooking? Check, check, and check.
Yes, all these concepts and more went into my carefully laid out plan. But what is rarely mentioned - or perhaps it was and I just couldn't see it for my rose-tinted glasses - is that sometimes kids just don't want to do the work of learning. In the words of my very wise 4th grader: "Mom, I'd rather keep doing what I know."
Fair enough. Who among us really wants to go beyond our comfort zone? Is it not easier to simply maintain our status quo than to stretch a little farther? Yes, learning is work, and work is usually uncomfortable to a certain extent. It is supposed to challenge us. Growth rarely occurs without some discomfort...or outright pain! (Believe me, we're in the throws of waking up in the middle of the night with growing pains, so I know all about that.)
Yet, we recognize it's value so we push on. And, with a little discipline, we can even come to enjoy that process.
Sometimes a successful week is not that you checked off every box (on your loop schedule so that you're not actually ever "behind"), but that you faithfully persisted in showing up and going to the next thing when the last was complete. Sometimes a successful week does not mean that you were able to school for four hours straight, but that you picked back up where you left off after you got back from the dentist's office...and the grocery store...and the tantrum...and the kid was having trouble holding it together too!
Oh yes, the plan will no doubt need some tweaking, but for now, I think it simply needs faithfulness.
On to what we actually did during our school days!
Bible
We read through chapters 4 and 5 of Genesis, discussing the fall, Cain and Abel, and the brief mention of Lamech. Ms. Spontaneity asked some good questions and together we were able to mine out some good answers. We took a look at a map to view the present day Tigris and Euphrates Rivers, and she completed a notebooking page on Cain and Abel. I think my favorite line from her report was, "He got married and had a son, who got married and had a son, who got married and had a son....who got married TWICE and both had sons!"We also continued studying Psalm 119:10-12
Math
We did a small amount of work with fractions, ensuring that she was comfortable recognizing and defining some of the less common ones, like 2/3 and 5/8, etc. She seemed to really enjoy the memory match game I created to help her practice fraction recognition, although I suspect it really was a bit too easy for her. I'm still feeling my way through to find out what she knows and what she hasn't yet been introduced to.Later, I introduced Roman numerals, a completely new concept to her. Thus far, she has been able to grasp it pretty easily, so in our next lesson we will cover how to make numbers with 4's or 9's in them. I also found the book Fun with Roman Numerals by David A. Adler at the library and had her read that and she seems to have really enjoyed it.
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Finally, we've continued to practice our 3's multiplication tables (next week we move on to 4's) and building up speed with simple addition.
Language Arts
Oh, this was our particular nemesis this week.On the easy and enjoyable side, we finished three chapters in Caddie Woodlawn, and she has begged me to read a little more over the weekend.
She memorized the poem "The Tea Party" by Jessica Nelson North and loved that so much, she made up a tune for it and went around singing it repeatedly. She threw me quite a curve with this one as I rather expected resistance to poetry memorization and figured it would take her a while to memorize. Now I have to track down another poem!
We were also able to squeeze in a little bit of penmanship, and she was thrilled to be able to write an entire word without having to ask me how to form a letter.
For spelling, I have decided to begin by drawing from a list of fourth grade words I printed off the internet. Each week I have her take a spelling "test" on five words to see if she already knows how to spell them. If she can do so confidently, we check that one off; if she is able to guess the answer or isn't confident about the spelling, then we just make sure it pops up again in copywork and dictation so that she can get some practice. If she spells the word incorrectly, then we will study and review the word. This week she was able to spell three with no qualms and two will go on our list to practice to build up her confidence with them. Next week we will choose new words, and I will incorporate a few I have noticed her struggling with in her writing.
And then, there was grammar. Following the curriculum, I attempted to introduce the concept of the subject and the predicate, but only succeeded in driving her to tears in frustration and confusion. Apparently these were things that she had very little background in, and what little she was familiar with seemed to conflict with what I was trying to teach. After talking with her for a while to figure out where we got tangled up, I am hopeful that I have an idea of how to begin again, and next week we will start by identifying some of the parts of speech. My thinking is that if she can concretely identify the role of specific words in the sentence, we will be able to backtrack and begin to zoom out to see the subject phrase and the predicate phrase.
History
We spent some time working on our memory work, "America the Beautiful."We also did a little studying on the farming practices, diet, and music of ancient Egypt. To bring our studies to life, we built a working shaduf; by using this mechanism, a farmer could draw water up from the river Nile with the help of a counterweight for emptying into the canals that would run throughout his fields.
Ms. Spontaneity really enjoyed the challenge of using the materials I provided her to come up with a pulley system to haul the water. On her own, she was able to figure out a system that was quite close to the Egyptian shaduf, so once she had an almost working system, I made a couple of tweaks and demonstrated how the Egyptians utilized the same materials to solve the problem.
We were also scheduled to make a meal using ingredients available to (or at least, inspired by...I prefer my flatbread without rocks, thanks!) the ancient Egyptians, as well as listening to some Egyptian music, but that got overcome by events, so hopefully we'll manage to do that sometime this weekend.
German
Ms. S logged about 40 minutes working on her German this week using Duolingo. It's the only computer-based curriculum we use, but it's fun, effective, and free so I'm ok with it, at least for now. While I hope to actually do more intentional review during our school time, for now we gratuitously work in what few words we know to our daily conversation. Here's a sample of a real conversation from yesterday:"Mutter, may I have some vasser?"
"Ja" {supplies requested glass of water}
"Danke."
"Bitte."
"Mutter, may I have some brot?" {grins mischievously}
"Nein. Go to bed."
"Mutter..."
"Go to bed!"
Character
While I gave it my own twist, the theme of the lesson was inspired by Character First Education (you can follow the link to access their free teaching resources or to go to their shop where you can purchase the actual curriculum).We took a look at diligence, gave it a definition, and then watched a fascinating video about beavers. After watching the video, Ms. S was asked to tell me how the beaver demonstrated diligence.
And that's a wrap!
Unfortunately, we did not make any progress in science, art, or music this week, but that's where the patience and faithfulness come into play.